Turning Challenges of Menopause into Positive Opportunities
No matter how positive you remain, menopause does bring some uncomfortable challenges. From changes in libido to empty nest syndrome, the post-menopausal path can be bumpy, but instead of ignoring the hard parts, take the physical and emotional changes in stride. The key is to focus on your strength, and find ways to build it up even more.
- Use the transition to develop a new perspective. Don’t ignore the “pause” in menopause. This is a natural stopping point, a time to take stock of your life and envision what you want the next years to bring. Therapists suggest that women take the opportunity to look at their professions, personal lives, hobbies and the ways they care for their own health.With the onset of menopause, many women feel more energetic and self-assured, which can (and should) translate into greater self-confidence. Use the wisdom you’ve accumulated and your newfound physical freedom to try new things, or take on a new challenge at work. Some experts insist that this is a time to take risks; instead of focusing on the amount of life you have lived already, think about how much more there is to experience.
- Give your body a fitness makeover. Changes in hormone levels can mean weight gain, bone loss and general discomfort, so when menopause begins to bring some relief from perimenopause symptoms, take some time to get a good handle on your health. Be sure to schedule annual check-ups, pap smears and mammograms, and consider ramping up your regular fitness routine.Osteoporosis becomes a concern once your estrogen levels drop, but there’s a lot you can do to keep your bones healthy. First, inject your diet with bone-friendly foods, like calcium-rich kale and broccoli, and soy products, which can boost your natural estrogen levels. As for exercise, try to incorporate some weight-bearing activity that works against gravity to increase your bone density and muscle mass, like jogging, tennis, or moderate weight lifting.
- Funnel personal frustrations into a bonding experience. Physical discomforts and cognitive problems are all too common as you reach the end of your reproductive years, and they can be both annoying and isolating. But while it seems like you’re dealing with hot flashes, memory loss, mood swings and sleep problems all on your own, there are lots of other women who share your plight.Talking, joking and sharing your thoughts with other menopausal women will help you relieve your stress and learn to cope better. Women who exchange stories and sympathy with their friends gain courage, self-esteem and confidence to face the world – many of same positive results that come with formal therapy.
Be Your Own Woman
Society’s attitude toward menopause is one of the biggest barriers to a healthy and happy post-menopausal life. Cultural expectations and negative stereotypes can be difficult to overcome, but it’s vital that you keep a positive outlook and focus on your unique abilities. Remember that menopause isn’t what it used to be: women today are healthier and more active, and there is a wide range of holistic and complementary therapy to help you through the rough times.
Psychological states have a lot of influence over physical symptoms: studies have shown that women with high self-esteem at midlife actually experience fewer menopausal symptoms, so take time to relax your body and mind. Try daily meditation to center yourself and take charge of your physical symptoms. Build a good support network with friends and family, but also look to local groups that can provide a helpful outlet. A well-rounded routine will keep you energized and in control of your daily routine, but can also help you reach your full potential in the second half of your life.