Enjoying the Holidays Despite Menopause
If you are panicking about suffering symptoms of menopause during the holiday season, good news! I have managed to come up with some top tips for getting through it.
You think it might be nice to have a few friends over to your home – organize some festive food and maybe a few drinks. Lovely.
What to Wear?
Forget synthetic/manmade fabrics and go for natural fibers, and dress in layers which can come on and off depending on the severity of your hot flashes.
I found when I was trialling HRT transdermal patches (recommended for me as a diabetic as the medicine bypasses the liver) I had to be careful about about clothes. My favourite skinny jeans or any outfit which involved tights seemed to cause the patches to curl at the edges when I shimmied out of them during my frequent bathroom breaks, and I ended up having to carry spares for when the combination of fluff-coated edges and sweat made them drop off!
My go-to outfit for the worst part of my menopause ended up being comfy but smart jersey cotton dresses, which stretched over my stomach depending on the severity of my bloating, teamed with leggings on cooler days, and cardigans or jackets.
Hair and Makeup
Time to sort your hair. I favor smart and cool up-dos. I opted for as simple as possible, since any complicated hair drying or styling seemed to set off yet more hot flashes. Makeup? A swipe of tinted moisturiser for me (full-on foundation sits in my ever-increasing lines) and a good quality waterproof mascara, since anything else immediately slides down my face. Is this a menopause thing? I have not yet found the answer to that one! Not too much blush - my face does that on its own!
Dealing with the Hot Flashes
Thanks to the hormonal skirmish raging in your body, despite all your best efforts you greet your guests sweaty and red-faced. Your carefully coiffed party hair is stuck to the back of your neck and your forehead making both itch, and your makeup is rapidly dissolving in a pool of oil or perspiration.
This is a good thing. Your friends will immediately assume you have been slaving for hours in a hot kitchen making a range of tasty treats for their delectation when in fact you have spent ten minutes opening packets, microwaving snacks and tipping chips into bowls because you are so exhausted from so many restless nights you could not even face slapping mincemeat from a shop-bought jar onto ready-made pastry.
You let them in, exchange pleasantries and then excuse yourself and hurry back to the kitchen to... prepare more canapés? No – to get as much of your body as possible into the freezer. This I have actually done on many occasions during flashes. Easy for me with a huge freezer, but more agility is required if you have a fridge with a small freezer drawer.
My top tip here is to keep your freezer stocked with those cooling gel cushions designed for children. When the hot flash strikes you can grab it for your forehead or neck. It's more hygienic to use one of those than the frozen peas!